Jennifer Lopez claims she has reached a state of complete happiness since marrying her husband Ben Affleck.
Gracing the cover of Vogue’s December issue, Lopez, 53, reflected on her relationship the first time around with Affleck, whom she married in July.
“We were so young and so in love at that time, really very carefree, with no kids, no attachments. And we were just living our lives, being happy and out there. It didn’t feel like we needed to hide from anybody or be really discreet,” Lopez said.
The pair first met on the set of “Gigli” in 2001 and began dating the following year. They broke up in 2004, calling off their engagement.
“We were just living out loud, and it turned out to really bite us. There was a lot underneath the surface there, people not wanting us to be together, people thinking I wasn’t the right person for him,” Lopez said. “I became very guarded because I realized that they will fillet you. I really wish I could say more. I used to be like that. I am like that. But I’ve also learned.”
Affleck and Lopez rekindled their romance in June 2021 after Affleck, 50, divorced Jennifer Garner.
“Obviously we weren’t trying to go out in public. But I never shied away from the fact that for me, I always felt like there was a real love there, a true love there. People in my life know that he was a very, very special person in my life,” Lopez gushed. “When we reconnected, those feelings for me were still very real. I don’t know that I recommend this for everybody. Sometimes you outgrow each other, or you just grow differently. The two of us, we lost each other and found each other.”
Lopez claims she was actually surprised to know that people were upset that she had taken her husband’s last name.
“People are still going to call me Jennifer Lopez. But my legal name will be Mrs. Affleck because we’re joined together. We’re husband and wife. I’m proud of that,” she said. “I’m very much in control of my own life and destiny and feel empowered as a woman and as a person. I can understand that people have their feelings about it, and that’s OK, too. But if you want to know how I feel about it, I just feel like it’s romantic.”
However, Lopez made sure to add their relationship hasn’t always been rainbows and butterflies. They were both single parents and the process of integrating households was not a simple one.
“The transition is a process that needs to be handled with so much care. They have so many feelings. They’re teens. But it’s going really well so far,” said Lopez. “What I hope to cultivate with our family is that his kids have a new ally in me and my kids have a new ally in him, someone who really loves and cares about them, but can have a different perspective.”
“My whole life, my whole music career was just about love: every movie I picked, every album I made. Even though I’m super proud of who I am today, and I wouldn’t change a f – – king thing,” Lopez concluded.
